‘Twas almost midnight when I successfully tucked Nica to
sleep tonight. She was able to sleep in the afternoon so it became torturous
for me to try and let her sleep. If only you know ‘nak what your mom’s schedule
is but I know you’re much too young to really comprehend why mommy became so
busy already.
Mornings I wake up before you do so we could encourage you
to wake up early. I know you hate waking up as I hate waking up too. Manang mana
ka sa mom mo, nak, so I know how you feel. But even so, I push myself to wake
up at 5:30 am. Do you know I sleep around 3am? But I don’t complain. I love
waking up for you. Though I am not the one who do your morning routine with
you, but I want to just be there, as much as possible I want to be alert and
wide awake so we could cuddle, play around a little and pray together. I love
receiving a hug from you and wishing you a good day as you bid me goodbye as
you head for school. My body’s really tired so I try to sleep before 8 to wake
up around 10:30. As you head to your other home to study and play some, mommy
is already wide awake busy with work. You know I work for you, right? Sure you
understand but maybe not as well because you continue to make green papered
money for me ‘cos you want me to have money. I know what you’re saying is, you
want me to have money already so I won’t be so busy and we’d be back to playing
more. So though I have a lot of things I need to do and my body’s feeling a bit
tired, when you arrive from your other home I make sure I spend an hour or two
with you. I want to be with you, to make you feel you’re my number one because
I love you.
At night my energy’s about to run out but you are at your
most energetic. We play around, sometimes you ask me to toss you around like a
crazy lil girl that you are. Do you know mommy’s heart is not so good? Sure you
do, but maybe not as well because you continue to beg me to make rough play
with you as I try to gasp for air every now and then. But it doesn’t matter, I
want to love you and make you feel how much you mean to me. I just stop when I
can’t take anymore and see that you are already satisfied with our “play” which
actually feels like a UFC bout.
Then it’s time to go to bed. I bought you 3 storybooks and
you want me to read all 3 of them plus online stories before you sleep. I am so
tired, ready to cry, but I don’t because I want to read you stories. It’s
therapy for me to hear you giggle, listen to how you interpret the stories and
how you laugh when you change the story and make all side comments about how
the characters are portrayed in the illustrations. I love your imagination, ‘nak.
You have such a brilliant mind I can’t help but be proud of you. There are
nights when you simply don’t want to sleep when I have a deadline I need to
reach. You know mommy still need to work, right? Sure you do, but maybe not as
well because you still say you don’t want to sleep and you want to cuddle some
more. And I do. I love cuddling with you my dearest one. I love feeling your
skin brushing against mine. I love your butterfly kisses, your giggles and many
I love you’s. I love how you make all sorts of reasons just to distract me and
give my full attention to you. I love you so much my lil girl. As tired as I am
but I like spending time with you.
Now you’re asleep and I look at you and I sigh in great
wonder. You are such a sweetheart. I can’t start working yet because I am just
amazed by you. As tired as I am but you energize me. You gave me so much strength
because you make my heart happy every time I see you. You are so wonderful. I
never thought I am capable of loving another this way until you came into my
life. Ours was not a love at first sight but a love that grew and it’s growing
exponentially. I will never stop loving you.
Oh how blessed I am in this life of mine.
(Danica aged 4 years and 10 months as of this writing.)