Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it to cling on and be with the people you love and not get the reciprocation you truly deserve. It's heartbreaking and rather foolish. Sometimes it seems to become a habit and you barely notice that you are actually pushing yourself too hard and when it's time for you to let go, no matter what you do, you just can't. It's really hard when you start getting used to being abused and being contented with nothing. But sometimes, enough is enough and you just have to let go... only just when your heart finally starts to let go. It's easy to say that you should let go but when your heart is not in harmony with your mind, you can't give up just yet. You hold on... without knowing if there's a point for all your sacrifices and for all your pain. You hold on because you still romanticize the situation and just can't handle the facts.
When, finally, your heart starts accepting the reality and you start to loosen your grip will you truly understand that you have wasted your time with people who are undeserving. There are people around you who deserved your love and time, but you are just too focused that you barely even notice they exist. Only when you start to let go can you see the true beauty of actually being loved and to finally get the reciprocation you truly deserve. It is only then that you start to realize that when you love someone, it's much more rewarding if that someone loves you back. Love is not a one-way thing and both should put an effort to keep one another... not just one.
Stop romanticizing... It won't do you any good. Deal with the facts and accept the truth that you have to finally let go.
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Nice thought :)
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